In the Inspirational Class đŹ today we will talk about loving without conditions â¨đ since ancient time they tell us that you have to cling and hold on to the one you love forever. We start the relationship with someone because we admire them. And then after a while we want them to change. Why? Why change?
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Can you love yourself? If you judge yourself, if you condemn yourself, how can you love someone else? Unconditional love exists. You love because of the pleasure of loving someone. The happiness of loving someone. You donât wait for something back. If you wait for something back youâre not loving unconditionally anymore. If you get jealous, youâre not loving unconditionally anymore.
Weâre not split. Weâre not divided, weâre not separated from each other, weâre all one and thatâs why we trust and respect each other. Itâs not easy to have unconditionally love, we have to practice. To train and live experiences. Weâre constantly training by media to be jealous, to be angry, to make a scene, to make a scene how offended we are. And all of this takes away the possibility of unconditional love.
Remember:
11 - VERY STRONGLY CONDITIONED HABITUAL IDENTIFICATION
THIS IS HOW WEâVE LIVED OUR LIVES
A continued habitual identification coming from different sources, not only television.
Unconditional love doesnât mean you have to get married and be with this person for the rest of your life. You can love them now, in the moment. Think about now. Is it working now? Perfect. Later on you discover that living together doesnât work out. You can live separated. But still together. Unconditional love doesnât mean you have to be suffering together. Having pain because I love you.
Unconditional love is when someone is saying that they are leaving, you reply: what a pity! Youâre happy, youâre fun, itâs so good to be together, but if you want to go, go. I want you to be happy. Find someone who completes you. Itâs hard I know. Accepting is hard. But it can be your source of freedom.
6 - YOU CAN DECIDE WHICH FEELING YOU ENGAGE WITH
8 - YOU CAN INFLUENCE WHICH MODULES WIN OR LOSE
9 - CHOOSE NOT TO BE GUIDED BY THOUGHTS THAT ARE NOT HELPFUL
We watch soap opera, movies. Books, since ancient time they tell us that you have to cling and hold on to the one you love forever. We start the relationship with someone because we admire them. And then after a while we want them to change. Why? Why change? Werenât you interested because that person had certain traits? Now youâre afraid of losing them and want them to change their traits because they canât be loved by someone else? It only means that you donât trust. Trust in their love. And if youâre capable of loving and respecting yourself, youâre capable of loving and respecting someone else, or even animals, a little dog. And after all, the thing that you actually love, is life.
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